its ok if you didnt always know you were trans
its ok if you really felt like your designated gender. its ok if you really were a boy or girl at some point. its ok if you really would rather view your transness as changing from one thing to another (instead of a process of revealing what was already there). its ok if you didnt know that you were trans when you were a kid. its ok if youre only just starting to think about gender stuff now. its ok if you approached transness deliberately, experimentally, as a conscious choice. its ok to approach your gender as mutable
it doesnt mean your transness is less valid or like the gender you are now is less “real” just because its not something youve always been perfectly aware of. youre great and powerful and whatever you want for yourself in your future right now is important and worthy no matter how long youve wanted it
proposed solution to love triangle problem in stories today
love triangles can be neat. but they require variations. here are some ideas
- girl likes boy 1. boy 1 likes boy 2. boy 2 likes girl.
- girl likes boy 1 and boy 2. boy 1 likes girl and boy 2. boy 2 likes girl and boy 1. complex polyamorous relationship.
- girl 1 likes girl 2. girl 2 likes robot. robot fuses with girl 1 to stop the apocalypse.
- girl likes dragon. dragon likes boy. boy is asexual but likes dragon.
- boy likes genderqueer shapeshifter. genderqueer shapeshifter is pansexual. queen elizabeth is involved.
- boy like centaur. centaur is in arranged marriage with mermaid. mermaid likes other mermaid.
- boy likes male alien and girl. male alien likes boy and girl. girl likes boy and male alien. girl also likes other girls. space the final frontier
so i have two little cousins one is 10 and the other is 7 and my aunt told them they could each say one cuss word and not get in trouble so the older one very politely says “damn” but the younger one stands up on the kitchen table, rips his shirt off and screams “FUUUUUUCCCKKKK” while dive bombing to the floor and my aunt just stood there and stared at him because she couldn’t get mad at him
when u stand up 2 fast n suddenly ur floatin thru space n time